Category: Beneath the Surface (Reflections of Inner Feelings)
These are the thoughts I don’t say out loud—the quiet aches, unanswered questions, and soft unravelings that never quite made it into conversation. Here, I peel back the layers and sit with what’s left.
Exposed
There is a particular kind of vulnerability that comes after creation.
Not the kind where you are seen.
The kind where you are left standing.
When you put something into the world that was built from marrow and memory, there is a moment where the noise falls away. No feedback yet. No echo. Just the quiet knowledge that what was once held close now belongs to anyone who finds it.
That space is unsettling.
It is not regret.
It is not doubt.
It is exposure.
The part of you that knew the words before they were shaped now has no control over how they are received. Or if they are received at all. You wait. Not for praise. Not for validation. But for some sign that the thing you released did not disappear the moment it left your hands.
This is the cost of honesty.
Not being misunderstood.
But being fully visible without guarantees.
And still, you stand there.
Open.
Unarmored.
Because retreat would mean pretending it never mattered.
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Quiet, Unresolved
There are things I don’t write about
because I don’t know where they belong.
They exist, just not out loud and not definable.
I tell myself that not everything needs a name.
I try to believe that.
But once it lives in my head long enough,
my heart starts asking questions I didn’t invite.
Is it not worth naming? Or am I not worth naming?
Others are quick to notice what isn’t there.
To ask their questions.
To decide what the silence must mean.
I don’t know if leaving it unnamed
is restraint or erasure.
I just know it stays with me.
Quiet. Unresolved.
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When I Question My Own Existence
I think about this more than I let on.
Not in a way that wants to be seen.
Not in a way that asks for reassurance.
Just in the quiet moments when I wonder whether I exist in anyone’s mind when I am not needed.
I wonder who thinks of me when a certain song comes on.
When they drive past a place where we once talked too long.
When something reminds them of a version of themselves that only existed with me.
I wonder how many stories I was part of that I will never hear about.
Moments where I mattered more than I realized.
Or if those moments ended the second my usefulness did.
Because there are people who remember me only when I am serving a purpose.
When I am listening.
When I am holding space.
When I am showing up strong, steady, and available.
And yes, sometimes that purpose is submission.
When I am giving myself over.
When I am kneeling, figuratively or otherwise.
When my body, attention, or surrender is what is wanted from me.
And when I am no longer offering something, when I am simply standing in myself, I fade from their awareness.
I don’t think this makes them unkind.
I think it reflects how often connection gets confused with consumption.
Still, it leaves a mark.
There is a particular loneliness in realizing you may live in someone’s life as a role rather than a whole person.
As someone who is useful, but not remembered.
Valued for access, not presence.
I wonder if I cross anyone’s mind when I am not giving.
Not fixing.
Not kneeling.
Not holding them up.
I wonder if I exist simply as myself.
Not as labor.
Not as care.
Not as desire.
This isn’t bitterness.
It’s honesty.
It’s the question that surfaces when you are someone who gives in many forms, across many parts of your life.
Do I exist in you when I am not offering something?
Or only when I am being used?
Some days, I accept that I may never know.
Other days, the wondering lingers.
And maybe the truth is this:
I may never know how often I pass through someone else’s thoughts.
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Drawn Beneath the Surface
The water doesn’t ask me to be confident.
It doesn’t expect curves to be sharp or words to be clever.
It only asks that I let it hold me.
So I do.
I sink until the silence wraps itself around my thighs,
until the bubbles kiss places rarely noticed in the light,
until the ache of being seen and the ache of being hidden
start to blur together.
There’s no posing here.
No pretending.
Just skin. Just breath. Just softness.
And maybe, if someone looked close enough,
they’d see it for what it is—
not a show, not a tease,
but a quiet kind of offering.
Not because I think I’m irresistible.
But because I long to be received.
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When the Well Runs Dry
When the well runs dry,
the earth does not break open.
It only grows still,
as if holding its breath
beneath a sky that no longer listens.
The stones cool first,
their worn edges losing the warmth
of what once moved over them.
Dust gathers where water should be,
soft as surrender,
quiet as something forgotten.
Those who pass by pause
out of instinct,
leaning over the rim
as though depth might return
out of courtesy or memory.
Nothing stirs.
Even the wind grows cautious here,
skimming the surface
without touching the hollow beneath.
It knows better
than to disturb what emptiness guards.
When the well runs dry,
there is no announcement.
Only the faint echo
of a place that once carried weight,
now offering nothing
but the truth of its own stillness.
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After: What Happens When the Door Closes
When the door shuts, the silence hits first.
Not the satisfying kind — the kind that feels like the world just erased all evidence that anything happened at all. The kind that reminds her she was wanted a moment ago, then forgotten just as quickly.
Her breathing is still uneven. Her body is still warm from his hands. The marks still throb like fresh truth beneath her skin. But the room is already going back to normal — and she’s expected to do the same.
She pulls her dress down slowly, not because she’s fragile, but because she’s trying to hang onto the last moment she wasn’t alone.
He took everything he came for.
And she let him.
And she wanted to.
And now she has to live with the quiet.
The knife he held and the paddle he swung both feel more honest than the way he said goodbye.
She doesn’t regret it.
She regrets that it never seems to be enough.
The crash isn’t dramatic. There are no tears. No crumbling. Just a hollow drop inside her that reminds her she feels deeper than she’s supposed to. That she hopes for more than she’s allowed to or will ever be.
She gathers herself, as if that’s easy.
As if she didn’t just open a door that he walks out of every time without looking back.
She checks the lock — because he told her to.
Then she stands there for a moment, steadying her breath, letting her heartbeat slow, reminding her body that she is still hers again.
It’s not the marks that hurt.
It’s the waiting for the next time she’s allowed to feel wanted.
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What Others Waste
I watch good men get discarded by women who should have been on their knees in gratitude.
Men who work long hours and still show up for their children.
Men who fix what is broken without needing to be asked.
Men who remember birthdays, refill gas tanks, open doors.
Men who protect, provide, participate.
Men who deserve to come home to softness instead of hostility.
But instead they walk through their own front doors and get met with bitterness.
With sharp tongues and cold shoulders.
With women who take their devotion as an inconvenience
and their loyalty as a given.
Their kindness is ignored.
Their effort is invisible.
Their presence is taken for granted.
And when these men pull away, when they go quiet
because they are exhausted from giving more than they receive,
those same women accuse them of being distant, uncaring, emotionally unavailable.
It is maddening to witness.
Because while they complain that their husbands do too much,
I have spent years with a man who does not do enough to even qualify as a partner.
I know what it feels like to be married to a man who was never taught how to stand on his own.
Not a bad man.
Not a cruel man.
Just a man raised to be taken care of instead of taught how to show up.
A man who learned dependence rather than responsibility.
Who grew up believing love meant someone else would always handle the hard parts.
Who was praised for existing, not for contributing.
But understanding where it comes from does not mean it meets my needs.
It does not feed me.
It does not support me.
It does not give me a partner.
Because if I have to tell you to take out the trash,
if I have to write down tasks like chores for a child,
if I have to prepare you for what needs to happen while I am gone,
if I have to volunteer you for things because initiative does not exist in you
Then I am your parent, not your partner.
Love cannot grow where leadership is constantly forced.
Desire cannot survive where responsibility has to be babysat.
Intimacy cannot deepen with someone who only rises when told.
He is not malicious, but he is missing.
And I am left holding the structure of a life he does not even know how to maintain.
I sleep in a separate room, not out of anger, but because the emptiness beside me is louder than silence.
So when I look at a good man,
when I see him giving, helping, loving, trying,
the ache inside me is not jealousy.
It is grief.
Not for him.
For what is being wasted.
Because some women are handed the very thing others spend a lifetime longing for,
not because they cherished it,
not because they earned it,
but simply because life has never been fair.
They disrespect what I would honor.
They discard what I would value.
They waste what I would worship.
And still, even with all I have seen,
I choose hope.
Not the kind that expects miracles,
not the kind that imagines my own life suddenly becoming what I wished it would be.
Just the hope that goodness will be recognized.
That the men who show up will be seen for who they are and what they give.
That someone, somewhere, will look at them and feel lucky.
Maybe that someone will never be me.
Maybe my path was meant to teach strength instead of softness.
Maybe I was shaped by a kind of solitude that others are spared.
Still, I can admire what others overlook.
I can recognize the rare without needing to possess it.
I can honor what deserves reverence.
A witness to what others are given
and what I still quietly honor.
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Open Window
The window is open
letting in the cold
as if the wind might stir something
still living inside her.
Rain drifts in
soft and uninvited
a chill crawling over her skin
where warmth used to rest.
She watches droplets gather
on the ledge and fall
like they can’t decide
whether to stay or disappear.
The room feels too quiet
the kind of silence
that presses against the bones
and asks questions
without words.
She draws her knees closer
as if closeness might return feeling
as if the storm might reach
the places she has grown numb.
Outside, thunder murmurs
a low, steady pulse
reminding her the world still moves
even when she is standing still inside.
She waits
for a spark
for a tremor
for anything at all
to remind her she is here.
The rain keeps falling
the wind keeps calling
and she keeps breathing
hoping the storm
will eventually find her.
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The Box
In the farthest corner of a forgotten room
rests a box
the color of old bruises.
It keeps to itself,
quiet as an unsent letter,
content with the hush
that gathers in the folds of its grain.
It never calls for touch.
It never dreams of opening.
It was built for stillness.
But some nights,
when the air shifts like a secret,
a hand returns.
Not with intention—
more like curiosity,
or a flicker of wanting
quickly smothered.
The lid rises a fraction.
Not enough for escape,
just enough for hunger.
A blade of light slips inside,
thin as a promise
that never learned to stay.
Dust stirs like restless ghosts,
revealing everything the dark
worked so hard to forget.
The box does not move.
It does not plead.
It simply endures
the ache of illumination
it never sought.
Then the hand retreats.
Always.
The lid closes with a softness
that feels like cruelty—
the kind masked as mercy.
The dark reclaims its territory,
spreading slow and familiar,
but changed now,
as if the light left fingerprints
on the silence.
Still the box remains,
unchallenging, obedient,
holding the knowledge
that even the gentlest hands
know how to open things
they never planned to keep.
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